I remember my single days vividly, but not with fond memory! They were a time of turbulence and largely a time when I was trying to find myself and trying to figure out why I was not finding “the one”. As I went through this period in my life, I so desperately wanted a relationship “to complete me”. Little did I know at that time that I had to be complete before I met my ideal partner. I was instead looking for someone else to fill the hole inside me. I see other women doing this too and it is so frustrating to see others make the same mistakes I did.
I’ve worked with many women in my coaching practice who have struggled with finding “the one” and so I wanted to offer some tips on how you can prepare yourself to finding the one. Also, these can help you with sending out the right energy into the universe so that you can attract the right one.
I went through my own process of attracting and manifesting “the one” and this included letting things go that no longer served me, working on myself, preparing myself, and using the art of allowing. The art of allowing is so important because you cannot FORCE someone to come into your life. If you are working on you and putting yourself out there in a positive way, there is no reason why you cannot attract “the one” into your life as well. Check out my useful tips for attracting the right one into your life.
So I thought I’d give you some secrets to manifesting your ideal partner.
1. Get yourself ready
Getting yourself ready for love and to meet your ideal partner is key. If you are not ready, it won’t happen. Also, if you are a crazy mess in your own life, the likelihood that you will meet Mr. Right is slim to none. You may meet guys, but they will not be what you are really looking for. Pick up personal development books. Look at your strengths but also recognize your weaknesses when it comes to dating and relationships. This will help you prepare for meeting your ideal partner.
2. Know what you want in a partner
Many people don’t know what they are looking for in a partner or have a pattern of dating the same person over and over. Break the cycle by figuring out what you really want so you can attract the right person into your life.
3. Know beyond a shadow of a doubt that the right person is out there
Know like you know, like you know! I’ve seen men and women of all ages connect with their ideal partner. It is not too late, you are not too old, and you are not too “anything” to manifest your ideal partner. You are who you are. Accept your awesomeness and know that there is someone out there just for you- that gets you and would be lucky to have you in their life.
4. Put yourself out there -become visible
Unless you are meeting people online or on a dating, you will actually need to leave the house to meet someone. Open up your social circles. Hang around different people. Go to events, functions, and even networking. You never know where that special person can be hanging out. Also, don’t be afraid to flirt, ask to get to know someone better or ask a guy to “hang out”, get coffee, etc. You are not asking the guy to father your children, you are just asking to hang out or get to know him better. Although it can be intimidating, it’s not brain surgery or rocket science. Bite the bullet and just do it. If you get turned down or if nothing ever comes of it, it’s okay. Think of it s as a gift from the universe that this one was probably not good enough for you anyway. The universe always has your back and the next awesome guy is right around the corner. Believe that!
5. Trust Your Instincts
Clearly, you don’t want to date every person that asks you out. Additionally, just because someone is attractive does not mean they are right for you either.
So, have a conversation, have dinner, drinks or just coffee and get to know that person a little.
6. Stop dating the WRONG ones
If you know a guy is wrong for you, is just a temporary fix, or a guy “just for now”, don’t even waste your time. All this does is clutter your energy and tell the universe that you are not ready to meet the RIGHT one, because you are too busy with the WRONG one. Also, being alone and getting in tune with yourself is necessary for meeting the right one. So if you have a fear of being alone and this keeps you in the wrong relationships, then you need to evaluate this and work on this before you can open yourself up emotionally, mentally, and energetically to meeting the RIGHT one.
I hope these tips help you and guide you to finding YOUR right one. Also, if you need help with LOVING YOURSELF FIRST, and as my VALENTINE’s GIFT TO YOU – check out my new FREEBIE workbook – LOVE YOURSELF FIRST. You can download it from the link here: https://transformationalpath.leadpages.net/lyf-free/
In love and light,